Most parents would like for their children to be confident, bold, and brave. However, we spend so much time protecting and coddling them as children. Take a look at these quick and easy tips for raising a confident child.
Improve your self-confidence
It is so easy to look at our children and see the areas that they appear to be lacking in. It is just as important to take an introspective look at yourself and notice the same things. The best way to teach your child anything is to be that thing or to emulate those same characteristics.
Be positive
Much of what your child thinks of themselves comes from you. Do they feel like people enjoy being around them? Do they feel beautiful or attractive? Do their opinions and thoughts matter to you? Take a minute to think about whether or not you give off positive or negative thoughts and feelings to your child.
Encourage their talents
Have you noticed that your child is good at something in particular? Be sure to encourage them in that area. Let them know how good they are at it. Some people believe that the confidence that they may feel in one activity or area can spill over into other areas of their lives.
Start at Home
Much of how your child feels about themselves is shaped by their initial significant relationships. The bonds that they have with their parents, aunts, uncles, siblings, etc. determine so much as they continue to grow and develop. Many people tend to adopt the mindset that they will expose their child to many different people and situations and allow their child to develop their own values. That tends to be problematic. It is better play a more active role in the development of their values.
Know Their Friends
It is impossible to consistently choose your kids friends for them. You can however monitor those friendships and teach them the qualities to look for in a good friend. Kids that bully, are super aggressive, and are constantly getting into trouble may not be the type of child you want them to be friends with. Building a child with confidence, includes giving them the skills necessary to surround themselves with encouraging people and to also be encouraging to their friends.
There is so much more to cover on this ever important topic! Be sure to check out part 2!
